Monday, June 8, 2009

Update On the Baby-Mama-Drama

I finally got notice that the lady on Facebook, who happened to have the same name as my son's Birth Mother, accepted my plea for friend status! Yay. So last night I sent her a bumbling beat-around-the bush message. I mean, after all, what is the proper way to ask a complete stranger if they are your baby's Mama? So I decided to not ask her directly, but ask if she knew him and gave her his name and DOB.
Then I hit "send" and completely expected to wait another couple of months for a reply.
If I got a reply at all.
I was shocked this morning to have a message waiting for me. The amazing news is that she has the same name as his mother and she is in fact from Kyrgyzstan. This is what she wrote:

Hello, Mala!
I am sorry to disappoint you, but I don't have any idea who is this little boy. Any way, it's very nice to meet you. I hope you will find him.
At the moment I live in Malta, but very soon I am going back to Kyrgyzstan. If you want to ask me something else, do not hesitate, ask. Hopefully, I will be able to help you.
Take good care.
Best regards.

So it seems we have hit a dead end. But still, she sounds like a wonderfully sweet person and from all appearances, a good example of a fine young lady from Kyrgyzstan.


Maria said...


Bev said...

So glad you got a response, so at least you know. :( Keep at it, girly!

So that means that I am now randomly FB friends with some chick who knows the girl who is not Beck's BM. FML.

Samsmama said...

Oh, that sucks. But she sounds lovely. Could have been much worse.

Harmony said...

Dang it! I don't know what else to say about that.

jessica o said...

Positive thoughts! That's one less person on the list. :)

Mary said...

awww- sorry, but still so nice to know there are considerate people out there...even in Kyrgyzstan.

Cindy said...

You need a search angel. I found my family about eight years ago using a free search angel. I was adopted in LA California so I put free search angel southern California in google search and I got lucky. Didnt cost me a penny =) Good luck. Cindy